Silent Meditation

Silent meditation is it better than other types of meditation? This is a question often asked and I want to give you a complete understanding of this style of meditation.

Silent Meditation is a type of meditation where you meditate in a silent undisturbed space. This meditation silence gives you less external distractions and can allow your meditation to intensify on a deeper inner level. It is recommended for advanced meditators, as there are no guided instructions or time limits.

Although this meditation can be a powerful way to experience meditation, it may not be right for you. Jumping head first into this type of meditation can lead to confusion, frustration and overwhelm.

Let’s get you clear on silent meditation.

What is Silent Meditation?

Although silent meditation descended from the teachings of Buddha, the modern-day practice is usually secular (non-religious) in nature. It is known to teach mindfulness in your inner thoughts, feelings actions and breathing. As suggested by the name, this practice requires complete silence which allows the meditator to experience an observation based self-exploratory journey.

The overall goal of silent meditation is to gain a deep understanding, insight and meaning into the true nature of reality by experiencing the world as it really is rather than constantly seeing things only the way we want to see them .

Silent meditation definition and meaning – This type of meditation is one of the most ancient forms of meditation and is often referred to as Vipassana – which means “to see things as they really are”.

How Can Silence Help You to Meditate?

A powerful meditative state is achieved, by not allowing the external distractions of our modern world to overload you and disrupt your meditation experience. This meditation silence can intensify into a deeper inner connection with your mind and body by using a disciplined focus on physical sensations.

Should You Meditate in Silence?

Silent meditation is unlike other forms of meditation in the fact that it is more often than not a journey of long-term practice. Often, people will experience silent meditation at a Vipassana retreat which can range in length from a single day to a 7-10 day retreat. This extended duration of silence is what differs silent meditation from other types of meditation.

So if you are a beginner silent meditation may not support you in building a beneficial and consistent meditation practice. This style of meditation practice may leave you with a list of questions that may lead to frustration, overwhelm and stop you from meditating at all.

Silent meditation is a great stepping stone when you have a strong understanding and experience with the fundamentals. Then you can consider the intensified experience of a meditation retreat.

That said……

Silent Meditation Retreats – How do they work?

As mentioned earlier, the retreats normally have duration of 7-10 days. The retreats are known to be immersive and can push people out of their natural comfort zones. However, they are also known to be one of the most effective ways of experiencing silent meditation and pushing your boundaries in order to experience the true benefits of extensive silent meditation. During these retreats, participants can meditate for up to 12 hours per day and are removed from their digital devices and internet access. In a meditation retreat you must spend entire days without talking or communicating with anyone at all.

In order to get the most benefit out of a silent meditation retreat, you need to maintain an extremely open mind and heart. Leave all expectations at the door and go into the experience without assuming what it will entail and how you will feel. Instead, simply embrace and enjoy it.

In the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive and deceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness. Our life is a long and arduous quest after Truth.

~ Mahatma Gandhi ~

5 Powerful Benefits of Silent Meditation

Silent meditation is a challenging, boundary pushing practice that requires an open mind and persistent attitude.

So why do people put themselves through silent mind meditation?

The commitment and trust is all worth it once you begin to experience the abundant benefits of silent meditation. The experience of removing yourself from the familiarity of interpersonal conversation and connection is truly a life changing experience.

Let’s take a look at just a few of the many benefits.

1. The first benefit of experiencing silent meditation is developing patience. Although it sounds simple, patience is often a value that many of us lack. Often when meditating, people can feel as if they are “wasting time” – which often stems from the societal pressures needing to be busy. By recognizing and working with impatience, we can strengthen our mind and our appreciation for meditation – allowing us to bring patience into our daily lives.

2. The second benefit is learning the ability to truly listen to yourself. Completing a silent meditation retreat is a challenging task. During your experience you will come to realise the amount of time you spend alone with your own thoughts. This experience teaches you to become familiar and comfortable with your internal monologue and will lead to a deeper recognition and listening of these thoughts/feelings as you return to your daily task in the modern world.

3. Another valuable benefit is learning to develop stronger coping mechanisms. As discussed earlier, the goal of silent meditation is to learn to see the world as it really is.In order to achieve this goal of true clarity, one must leave with a great deal of acceptance. This acceptance can be transferred into the real world and used as a coping mechanism to accept tragedies and face challenges in a positive and accepting manner.

4. Silent meditation allows us to become extremely comfortable with our own thoughts and emotions. With this comes a great sense of self confidence. Learning to acknowledge and accept the way we feel leads to an incredibly confident persona. This confidence can then be translated into our professional (decision making, knowing your true value) and personal lives – I can assure you that these benefits will be noticed by the people in your daily life.

5. The journey of silent meditation may also have a positive effect on your sleeping patterns. By learning how to keep yourself grounded and relaxed – you will find it easier to unwind and fall asleep during the evening. This can result in a deeper, more beneficial sleep which will have a ripple effect onto many other positive benefits of quality sleep such as reducing stress, allowing your body to heal and improving memory.

Silent Meditation vs Guided Meditation

Guided Meditation you are led by an instructor, via in-person classes, audio/video streaming or an online course. Silent Meditation you guide yourself through your own meditation practice, in a silent space at home or on a multi day meditation retreat.

Guided Meditation Advantages

  • Step By Step Instructors
  • Timed Sessions
  • Builds Confidence

Disadvantages

  • Distraction of  Instructor’s Voice
  • Rigid Structure
  • Locked in Style Meditation

Unguided Meditation Advantages

  • Untimed Meditation
  • No External Distractions
  • Deeper Meditation

Disadvantages

  • Can Cause Frustration
  • Can Be Isolating For Beginners
  • Can Lead to Overwhelm

Guided Meditation is a type of meditation used by beginners, it helps to gain confidence and a clear understanding of the meditation process. Guided meditation is a great place to start, as you can have all your questions answered by your guided meditation teacher.

Silent meditation is a form of meditation that requires you to spend long durations of time without any form of human interaction, communication or audible talking. It is a challenging form of meditation that allows you to learn more about yourself.

So which form of meditation is better Guided or Silent Meditation?

We can answer this question in two ways. Firstly silent meditation is a more challenging practice, which results in more benefits such as self-growth. Silent meditation is a very powerful way to get in touch with your inner stillness. When you practice silent meditation you open an internal space, where you can find rejuvenation, peace and enlightenment.

In other words, we are more likely to positively better ourselves if we challenge our boundaries and push ourselves to accept new things. It’s like all things in life, however much you put into something is how much you will receive back. By putting more effort into working towards successful silent meditation, you will end with deeper, more valuable benefits.

The second way that we can answer this question is far simpler. Essentially, both forms of meditation are beneficial in some way. The form of meditation that is best for you to do is the one you are more likely to complete on a regular basis. Choose the form of meditation that works best for you, fits best into your schedule and leaves you feeling the most relaxed. For example, if you find yourself disagreeing with the teacher during a guided meditation and wanting to alter the instructions – perhaps silent meditation is better for you and can be personalized. On the other hand, if you find that you get distracted easily during silent meditation and get flustered when trying to make it work – guided meditation may be best for you until you become more comfortable with meditation and understand what helps you to fall into a relaxed state.

To sum it all up, both of these forms of meditation are beneficial and should be incorporated into your life. It is up to individual preference as to which method works best for you. It is suggested however that all mindfulness practitioners try silent meditation with an open mind at some point.

How to Do the Silent Meditation Method at Home

Silent meditation at home can be very effective and enjoyable if your design your space properly.  As the home is a hub of busy activity, including kids, neighbors mowing lawns, delivery drivers knocking on doors and of course modern smart devices demanding attention. So you must be organized to achieve the most silent periods possible for your meditation at home.

Where Are The Best Places To Meditate in Silence 

  1. Your Bed Room or Quietest Room in Your Home
  2. In Your Car
  3. In the Bath
  4. Work Before Everyone Arrives (if possible)
  5. Rest Room or Toilet for Short Meditations (this one is actually quite popular)

Many people find early morning the best time to find total silence, but of course it has to work around your schedule. If mornings don’t work you, may need to carve out time, during your day.

Silent Meditation for Beginners 

7 Steps How to do Silent Meditation

  1. Once you find your silent space free of distraction, you can choose a focus object, like your breath, an imagine object or a silent mantra. Keep your focus object in the present moment.
  1. Find a good posture – if you a beginner the best positions for a silent meditation are places you will be comfortable, but will also stay alert. Sitting is the best option as a beginner, as getting to comfortable may cause you to fall asleep during this method of meditation.
  1. You can close your eyes or leave your eyes open with a soft gaze. If you close your eyes you may find this may allow you to go deeper into your meditation. If you leave your eyes open this can help you stay awake during your practice.
  1. Decide on the time you wish to meditate – if you are a beginner short during can be more beneficial, as longer meditation can cause frustration. Set your timer – 3 -5 minute is great place to start.
  1. Begin Your Meditation – Focus gently on your chosen object, just allow your mind to rest on your focus object.
  1. As you notice your mind starts to wander – Gently bring your mind back to your focus object. Important! Remember to give yourself the gift of patience, meditation takes time. Give yourself a mental high five every time you return to your focus object.
  1. Gently come out of the meditation – When the timer sounds, allow yourself the time to ease out of your silent meditation as you feel ready.

Silent Meditation Techniques

Here’s  a list of some of the most common techniques for using silent meditation.

  1. Silent Meditation Mantras
  2. Silent Prayer Meditation
  3. Silent Meditation for Sleep
  4. Silent Heart Meditation
  5. Kundalini Silent Meditation
  6. Silent Breathing Meditation
  7. Silent Meditation Walks
  8. Silent Peace Meditation
  9. Silent Sitting Meditation

Silent Retreat at Home – Silent Meditation Tips

Balance – Set your intentions. Decide how long you want to practice silent meditation – to begin, start with a few minutes a day and work your way up at your own pace. Ensure that you find a balance between quality meditation and the level of frustration that occurs.

Time – Create a silent meditation schedule. Allocate a realistic wake up and sleep time. Now you can decide on the meditations you want to incorporate and the durations of each. Start small, a few minutes each meditation and build slowly to get longer durations. Aim for a balance of physical movement, fresh air, mental stimulation and of course… meditation.

Food – Ensure that you are fueling your body (packed with nutrition). If you would like to follow Buddhist guidelines of avoiding violence of any form – eat a vegetarian diet. A full stomach hinders and distracts from silent meditation, ensure you are eating light, easy to digest meals.

Rules – Layout rules for your silent meditation. Some examples/ideas of rules you may want to adopt include a “no device policy” (no phone, laptop, television etc), as little talking as possible, give it your best shot, follow your schedule strictly. Ensure that your rules are achievable and realistic. These rules are personalized to you.

Reward – Make sure you reward yourself regularly. Begin silent meditation with realistic goals and know that the benefit you get, will depends on your perseverance to continually practicing regularly.

Journal – One last tip is to document your experience. Write down what you liked/struggled with your silent meditation This will help you have a clear map of your progress and a place to voice your wins and frustration on your mediation journey.